Rain, Rain ~ Come and Stay

Have you ever heard the children’s rhyme:

“Rain, Rain, Go Away. Little Tommy wants to play!”?

It was a fun one to sing, but I’ve always found myself mesmerized by raindrops. I loved watching their travels down a car window, and wondering which one would reach the bottom first as if they were racing against each other. I find something cozy and comforting in rain.

One of my favorite memories of a trip to England was turning This-Way-and-That-Way-and-This-Way-Again in the Hampton Court maze in the rain. (Of course, it was even better for I was nibbling on a slice of dreamy chocolate cake which we had purchased at a little tea shop across the way.)

Today, I looked at the week’s weather forecast for our city. It appears that we’re in for three straight days of rain. The actual forecast read:

Rain in the morning and continuing into the afternoon and starting again in the evening.

That seems pretty wet.

And, while I get my perfect rainy day Creamy Earl Grey tea out and think over a couple of movies I’d like to watch on Netflix, my thoughts also turn to rain in the Bible.

There’s Noah, of course, with A LOT of rain. (The details of Noah’s 150-day Animal Adventure Cruise can be found in Genesis 6-8.)

There’s Elijah first prayer for no rain (and God answered that prayer with no rain) and then his prayer for rain (and God answered that prayer with rain). Curious as to why? Check out 1 Kings 17-19.

It is a sign of blessing. (Leviticus 26:4 – “I will give you rains in their season, and the land shall yield its increase, and the trees of the field shall bear their fruit.”

It is a sign of God’s faithfulness. (Joel 2:22-23  – “Fear not, you beasts of the field, for the pastures of the wilderness are green; the tree bears its fruit; the fig tree and vine give their full yield. “Be glad, O children of Zion, and rejoice in the Lord your God, for He has given the early rain for your vindication; He has poured down for you abundant rain, the early and the latter rain, as before.”)

It is a sign of mercy. (Matthew 5:45 – “…For He makes His sun rise on the evil and on the good, and sends rain on the just and on the unjust.”)

For a gardener like myself, rain is also a promise, if not a sign, of suppleness. Weeds pull so easily from soaked soil. Wilted branches stretch back out to their full height without breaking. Leaves on our deck–once brittle curls of yellow and brown–now lie flat and supple, glistening gold and amber on my deck.

And let blessing and mercy wash over me.

While I was in college, I had a mentor who said that when taking his morning shower, he often thought of the water pouring down over him as washing away his sins, his cares, his worries, and then filling him up to overflowing with God’s Spirit.

And let blessing and mercy wash over me, indoors as well.

I’d like to share with you the lyrics to the song “Wash Over Me” by Jamie Smith, a contemporary worship singer/songwriter:

Wash over me wash over me
Wash over me wash over me

Rain down Your favor on us
Lavish Your love upon us
Pour out Your presence on us
Let me taste Your mercy in the rain

Only You can take this heart
Only You can take this mind
Only You can take this life
And make it look like Jesus

Isn’t that last refrain a sober thought? Let’s feel the rain wash over us. Let’s become soaked and supple. May our faithful and merciful God bless us and work in us so we may more and more reflect Jesus to a thirsty world.

This will be my last post for a while. I’ve enjoyed walking with you, both of us beside Christ, our Savior. I hope and pray you’ve grown closer to Him or been intrigued to open the Bible. And it’s with the Bible that we both will continue to be–and with that in hand and written on our hearts, we are with Christ.

And lastly, consider Deuteronomy 32:1-3:

“Give ear, O heavens, and I will speak,
    and let the earth hear the words of my mouth.
  May my teaching drop as the rain,
    my speech distill as the dew,
like gentle rain upon the tender grass,
    and like showers upon the herb.
  For I will proclaim the name of the Lord;
    ascribe greatness to our God!

Grace and peace in Christ Jesus, our Savior, dear friend!

 

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Family Reunions

What is summer without a family reunion or a family get-together sprinkled with lively children, frisky dogs, and ice cream? In my book, that’s part of the quintessential definition of summer. My childhood summers always included the mandatory grandparent/aunt/uncle/cousin get-together, a dining table ladened with tender roast beef, fried corn, green beans, mashed potatoes, and garden-fresh sliced tomatoes. (The cousins were relegated to the “children’s table” in the kitchen where we could talk, laugh, and play with our food to our hearts’ content.) After meals, we’d play in the attic and parade about wearing dresses from our aunt’s college days and then tumble outside to run here and there to the tune of twittering birds and droning cicadas amidst glittering lightening bugs. Happy times.

Just the other weekend, we enjoyed a small semblance of those times. There were aunts and an uncle. There were cousins. Little children were missing, but a frisky puppy made his appearance. The dining table was full with food and family faces once again and although the roast beef gave way to sweet potato burritos and guacamole, there were still garden-fresh sliced tomatoes. (And this time, all the cousins were grown, so we were all at the dining table!) We enjoyed walks through our shady neighborhood, stopping here and there when the puppy decided to sit down or tangled his leash around a bush. And in the evening, we relaxed in our small screened-in porch, once again lulled by twittering birds and droning cicadas, and reveling in the wonder of God’s creative handiwork of each glittering lightening bug we spotted.

After we all attended worship the next morning, we went to lunch together. Leaving the restaurant, my cousin whispered in my ear, “What a great family,” and I couldn’t help but agree with a thankful, wiser heart.

Looking back, it’s funny, how you view things when you’re very young. My daughter, at age 5, used to think that whatever was playing on our car stereo was playing in all the other cars around us. She’d see someone smiling in another car and attribute that to the fact that we were playing John Lithgow’s uproarious “Singin’ in the Bathtub”. Then she’d see someone looking serious and attribute that to the classical music we were playing! Growing up myself, I thought every family was the same as mine: lots of stories, lots of laughter, playing games, and worshipping together.

Now in her early twenties, our daughter laughs over that instance of a young, self-absorbed world view. And now, since knowing many more families myself, I’ve realized my perspective was a bit naive, as well. Yes, we have a great family and now I realize it’s a great blessing as well, but many people–people I love and care for and people I don’t even know–have families with lots of contention, lots of disappointment, playing around, and discounting God. And some families have a mixed bag, a little of both worlds.

In the end, however, it really doesn’t matter what your family here on earth was or is like. Whether it’s out of a storybook or a nightmare–or somewhere in between–that doesn’t matter at all. Because, even if Aunt Ruby said that we were “the sweetest thing ever” for as long as we can remember, we are all broken sinners, in need of a savior.

Which brings me to a different kind of family. It’s the family spoken of in John 1:12:

“But to all who did receive Him, who believed in His name, He gave the right to become children of God.”

We read in that first chapter of John that God has given us the “right to become children of God.” It’s not automatic. It’s an opportunity, a choice we are capable of making. We have the opportunity, the invitation. And if you realize (along with Aunt Ruby) that,

you are a broken sinner in need of a savior, and

you believe that Jesus Christ is God’s Son, and

that He died for your sins on the cross

was buried in a tomb,

rose to life after 3 days,

and will come again to call you home,

guess what?

God has called you into a new family:

And you’re in God’s family!

“See what kind of love the Father has given us, that we should be called children of God, and so we are!” 1 John 3:1, 2

You’re a child of God! Isn’t that wonderful news, dear sister and brother?!

Now let’s fast-forward to another family reunion.

When our time on earth has reached the fullness God has ordained for each of us, He will call us home. And what a family reunion that will be, complete with the wedding feast of the Lamb, of Christ!

Will we hear stories from our favorite Bible characters? Will Noah share a funny story about the peacocks and the crocodiles? Will Paul recount his shipwrecks? Will we be in awe, gazing at the reunion of the disciples, at unexpected surprises, at sights too beautiful for words and sounds of angels too glorious for recognition, and at the face of our Savior? Yes!

That’s going to be a family reunion like no other. I’m eager to be there; aren’t you?

Remember, Christ is ever with us, ordering our steps (Psalm 31:15), numbering our days, and–when time reaches fullness–we will all be truly home. What a joy it will be to see you there, my brother and sister, and what a reunion time we will have!

Until then, grace and peace and joy!

Daily Doxology

How’s your day been today?

This morning, I was going on day 2 of washing dishes in the bathroom sink due to a stubborn clog somewhere in the deep recesses of an unseen line.

But that’s only this week. Earlier in this month, we’ve faced the clearing out of my childhood home, a daughter battling a bad concussion, and the end of our beloved dog’s 14 year life.

All that sometimes seems like a mighty weight of sadness and worry, and yet today I was overwhelmed to praise my Savior.

No, I didn’t get any overwhelming good news (well, apart from getting the sink running again by the hands of some skillful plumbers).

No, the skies weren’t full of sunshine, bluebirds, and puffy white clouds.

And no, we didn’t get a new puppy.

My morning started out with the Olympic event of clothes changing–5 times and still not me, but wearable. Rain drizzled. Quiet reigned. I sat at our kitchen table, folded my arms on the wooden surface, and lay my head down upon them–and prayed.

And as I was praying for light on the path, for leading through the storm, my heart broke and tears flowed.

I realized, how selfish I was.

  • Surrounded in clean clothes within the walls of a house with running water and air conditioning.
  • Supported by faithful family and friends who speak truth and love when I need it most.
  • Stayed firm and steadfast by the work of Christ on the cross and the empty tomb that holds His full measure of love.

Who was I to pray FOR something.

I could do nothing but praise the one who gave and did everything for me.

And how that lifted away all those worries and concerns! Death had no sting. Trials had no snare. Concerns had no importance. Suddenly, nothing mattered more than praising Father, Son, and Holy Spirit.

Doesn’t the Bible call us to praise Him through prayer and song? Consider Psalm 148, verses 11 and 12:

Praise him, kings and all peoples,
    princes and all other rulers;
     young women and young men,
    old people and children, too.

and Psalm 100, verses 1 through 4:

Make a joyful noise to the Lord, all the earth!
    Serve the Lord with gladness!
    Come into his presence with singing!

Know that the Lord, he is God!
    It is he who made us, and we are his;
    we are his people, and the sheep of his pasture.

Enter his gates with thanksgiving,
    and his courts with praise!
    Give thanks to him; bless his name!

I quickly found versions of the Doxology hymn on my music system, and as I sang those simple words, God blessed me with peace.

I so encourage you ~ give it a try!

And if you’re curious about the Doxology hymn (as I was)…

 Thomas Ken, was an Anglican priest in England, in the 17th century. The Doxology is actually the chorus to two hymns he wrote for his students at Winchester College–one for the morning (“Awake, my soul, and with the sun”) and one for the evening (“Glory to thee, my God, this night). The full story of his most interesting life (and the full evening song) can be found at Hymn History

If you’re eager to hear the Doxology sung in beautiful new ways, open these links:

Here is the chorus ~ let it be the chorus of our lives, come trials and concerns or clogged drains and rain.

Praise God from whom all blessings flow.

Praise Him all creatures here below

Praise Him above ye heavenly host

Praise Father, Son, and Holy Ghost

Amen and Alleluia

 

Gardening in the Soil and in the Soul

Do you have questions for God? I seem to always have.

Simple young ones like, why didn’t I have any brothers or sisters?

Later, why didn’t So-&-So ask me out?

And, of late, are you hearing all my prayers?

So many times we know the answers to those questions, don’t we? We can read the Bible and know for certain that God loves us and is faithful. He moves according to His divine time and sovereignty. No one is wiser than God. No one loves us more, and He is patient with us because of that love. And where His love and mercy meet, is Christ.

Even so, we still have questions sometimes.

Yesterday, I went to a local garden center with a good friend who also loves gardening, so it started out on a high note even before setting off. I woke early, startled by happy anticipation. It was a cool, bright spring day and we were soon off, armed with jackets and our pruned lists of “must-haves.”

We made our way up a winding drive to the garden center. There, stretched out before us at the top, were row upon row of hoop houses, each brimming with plants. The garden center supervisor told us the layout and we quickly located some  oakleaf hydrangeas. We milled about in the “Shade Tolerant” section and “oohed and ahhed” over each bleeding heart blossom, the kaleidoscope colors of columbine, and the delicate, airy blossoms of several varieties of coral bells. A hoop house or two over, sun-loving bright flowers shouted, “Why can’t you take us home?”

Shade, shade, shade…

I have questions when I garden beyond the dividing line between “part shade” and “full shade” and where to plant a new hosta. Am I learning contentment? I wonder sometimes, just why must there be so many rocks in my soil? Is it partly to teach me patience? And, God, why did you create cockroaches and wasps? To give a job and income to our monthly exterminator?

I dig deeper…

Lord, root out those sinful weeds creeping into my heart:

Impatience

Discontent

I overturn another rock and pick it up, turning it over in the palm of my hand. It’s oddly shaped, roundish but with cuts and abrupt edges here and there. It’s color is mostly gray but, amid the mundane gray are little glints of black here and there. It really is beautiful. Ordinary yet unique. There is art even in my soil.

Patience

And the hosta and bleeding heart? They look beautiful, nestled into the cool, shady soil. They are in their perfect spot, what they’ve been made for, and where they should be.

Contentment

God is the artist and master-gardener. Shades and shades of color, flowers with perfectly whorled petals, leaves of a thousand shapes, design, and textures. He makes each little bit of green push through soil, drawn by warmth, to reach toward sunlight, to become what He has designed it to be. What a God!

And that same God who’s watching lilies in the field (and hostas and bleeding hearts in the shade), loves and watches over you and me! We have been made for Him. He longs for us, for our hearts. We’re drawn by the love of Christ and we reach toward Him–and when we find Him, that’s just where we should be. Not conformed, but transformed.

Psalm 139:1-16

“O Lord, you have searched me and known me!
You know when I sit down and when I rise up;
    you discern my thoughts from afar.
You search out my path and my lying down
    and are acquainted with all my ways.
Even before a word is on my tongue,
    behold, O Lord, you know it altogether.
You hem me in, behind and before,
    and lay your hand upon me.

Such knowledge is too wonderful for me; it is high; I cannot attain it.

Where shall I go from your Spirit?
    Or where shall I flee from your presence?
If I ascend to heaven, you are there!
    If I make my bed in Sheol, you are there!
If I take the wings of the morning
    and dwell in the uttermost parts of the sea,
even there your hand shall lead me,
    and your right hand shall hold me.
If I say, “Surely the darkness shall cover me,
    and the light about me be night,”
even the darkness is not dark to you;
    the night is bright as the day,
    for darkness is as light with you.

For you formed my inward parts;

you knitted me together in my mother’s womb.

I praise you, for I am fearfully and wonderfully made.[a]
Wonderful are your works;
    my soul knows it very well.

My frame was not hidden from you,
when I was being made in secret,
    intricately woven in the depths of the earth.

Your eyes saw my unformed substance;
in your book were written, every one of them,
    the days that were formed for me,
    when as yet there was none of them.

God,

All praise and glory!

We thank You for rocks in our soil and shade in our yard.

We thank you for patience and contentment.

We thank you for drawing us to you, questions and sins and all.

We thank You for Your love, for Your mercy, for Your forgiveness, and for Christ!

Amen

Too Much of a Good Thing?

I like chocolate chip cookies. (In fact, I tried to add a photo for you, but–enjoy a laugh–the computer somehow “ate” it!) I also like chocolate chip cookie dough. I even like chocolate chips straight out of the bag! Funny thing, though–after eating too many (or too much of the dough or too many warm just-out-of-the-oven cookies), I don’t feel too good.

Sound familiar?

Yes, there can be too much of a good thing–at least, when we’re talking about cookies and sugar.

But too much prayer?

Too much time in scripture?

Too much Bible study?

Too much Jesus?

Oh, that’s even sweeter, and I don’t think a day full of all that would be too much! Which makes me wonder…

…How might that look–to want more God, more Jesus, more Holy Spirit?

Well, for starters we could begin our morning with prayer–just open those eyes and praise God for His wonderful creations–our eyes, that sunbeam or raindrop, this day! “This is the day that the LORD has made; let us be glad and rejoice in it!” (Psalm 118:24)

Then we could shower with a sense of the flood of forgiveness secured in Christ’s atoning sacrifice. “But you were washed, you were sanctified, you were justified in the name of the Lord Jesus Christ and by the Spirit of our God.” (1 Corinthians 6:11)

Are others in your day as in mine? We can greet family members and co-workers with the joy of the Lord and an appreciation for the gifts that they are in our lives. “For what is our hope or joy or crown of boasting before our Lord Jesus at His coming? Is it not you? For you are our glory and joy.” (1 Thessalonians 2:19, 20)

Hungry for more than cookies? We could eat our meals with the simple yet profound grace of “Thanks be to the LORD God who brings forth grain from the earth and living bread from heaven.” “Man does not live by bread alone, but man lives by every word that comes out of the mouth of the LORD.” (Deuteronomy 8:3b)

You get the idea, don’t you? It’s a 24-hour opportunity! Hear the birds sing His praises. Watch the clouds paint the sky for His glory. Connect the stars he has numbered. All day, “taste and see that the LORD is good.” (Psalm 34:8) What a bountiful, full day.

Here’s how this all played out recently at our house…

Appreciating and desiring “more Jesus,” I mulled over an idea in my mind and started looking into pursuing a master’s degree in Biblical Theology.

Ouch!

As AWESOME as that would be, it had an understandably HIGH price tag! My husband and I talked it over and agreed that our walls had enough diplomas and that any money allotted for education would be better spent going toward our son, who’s currently working toward his first diploma.

That said, there was still that hunger to know more, to go deeper in God’s Word. So…

(here’s where the wanna-be-student gets creative…)

I looked at several seminaries online and wrote down the class topics included in their Biblical Theology degrees. Then, I assigned each of the top 12 topics to a month on my calendar and added an accompanying list of books, (a.k.a. ‘MUST READS”).

The result?

My husband (such a sport–and a voracious reader to boot!) and I have started a year long study in scripture and theological books to dive deeper into the wonder and glory of God! I know we won’t come close to the depth and breadth of a full seminary degree by miles, but won’t we have a bountiful year all the same, exploring scripture and drawing closer to God?!

And so, in late January, we made a gentle start with a number of definitions, fleshing out 15 or so words like “justification,” “sanctification,”, “Trinity,” “fellowship,” etc. In my head, I allocated it all to 20-30 minutes, but I didn’t take into account another person’s input–especially if that person is a deep Christian thinker and a lawyer!

AN HOUR AND A HALF LATER,

we finished ~

and we both were blessed with a really good beginning understanding.

Now it’s on to February and a month contemplating and reading about God! That’s what I’ll be doing a lot of this month, and that should be amazing!

(If you want to join along, I’m reading Knowing God by J. I. Packer right now! You may not want to take on a year long plan, but let me encourage you to read more scripture this year. Maybe read a Psalm at the day’s beginning and then read it again at the day’s end. Or consider reading those “little books”–1st and 2nd Peter; 1st, 2nd, and 3rd John; Jude; Titus–and really come to know each one. Do you like action? Try Acts! Whatever you decide, I do thank you for reading ChristBesideMe and pray it points you to Christ.)

Now let’s grab a couple chocolate chip cookies (two–not too many!) and get reading and get to know our God even better!

January: A Renewed Beginning

Here we are once again in January! Today, I’m snuggled up in flannel and wool, sipping cup after cup of hot tea (Earl Grey Supreme, my personal favorite). Be it a gray day with temperatures dropping hourly, I’m cozy inside, at rest, and with time to ponder Ephesians and my Savior.

My faithful companion snoozes on his little rug beside my desk. Sometimes his steps are not as quick as they once were. Sometimes his hearing and eye sight isn’t as sharp as it once was (unless a “cookie” treat slides across the floor). Still, he always loves his walks, and after this morning ‘s adventure, he is glad to be inside again, too. His gentle breathing reveals a heart at rest.

Is your heart at rest, too, beloved one? (more…)

Santa Claus, Christmas Trees, and Love

How would you describe Christmas in two words? It’s not easy! It’s a question to which there is no one correct answer, I think, but a question worth pondering all the same.

Our secular world might answer Santa Claus, but they may not know his true beginnings as an actual bishop some 250 years after Christ. Yes, St. Nicholas (which morphed into the name Santa Claus) loved Jesus and loved children. When he came into a significant inheritance from his deceased parents, he found his greatest joy in giving small bags of coins to the poor, often silently depositing them in stockings or shoes drying beside a fireside. And can you guess a bishop’s attire for those cold, old winters in present-day Turkey? You guessed it! A red robe and hat, both lined with warm, white fur.

Many might sum up Christmas with “Christmas tree”. We must thank St. Boniface, an Anglo-Saxon missionary called by his love of Christ to the northern Germanic people in the 4th century. When he came upon their “Holy Oak of Thor” which these people worshipped, he seized the moment, seized an axe, and chopped down that tree—all to make a visual point about the supremacy of Christ. And it worked; they came to faith in Christ. Boniface then pointed to an evergreen tree, instructing the new believers to see its triangular shape as a diagram of the Trinity and pointing to heaven. Even more applicable, its EVER green nature was a visual reminder that Christ was EVER with them. And so it remains.

Two different men. Two different centuries. But there is a commonality there. Did you happen to notice their mutual and beautiful inspiration? Both were prompted by their love of Christ.

And that brings us to the true answer for what Christmas means: Jesus Christ.

May our love of Christ be the inspiration and impetus for all of our actions and attitudes this Christmas~whether addressing Christmas cards, wrangling our way through the department store to buy gifts, or patiently queuing up in the long lines at the grocery or post office. (Yours truly definitely needs a reminder of that attitude when wrestling with Christmas lights!) Our love of Christ is only made possible because of God’s love for us, made reality in the most beautiful and merciful gift we have ever received~Jesus Christ.

With love at Christmas to you, dear reader!

Waking Up and Awakening to Listening

Early this morning in our tree-shaded, ivy-covered, peacefully nestled home, I awoke to —

HAMMERING!

BANGING!

SA-A-A-WWWING!

It sounded like it was right in our backyard! I got out of bed, stared with my blurry, nearsighted eyes into the back yard from our upstairs window, and deemed nothing out of place.

Once dressed and downstairs, our dog and I explored the neighborhood. Sure, there were sounds, but they weren’t coming from our backyard at all. In fact, they were coming from a house that was being renovated down the street from the FRONT of our house! Activity hammered, banged, and sawed on every side of that house!

Sound is a funny thing, isn’t it? It can echo seamlessly around corners, under branches, up hillsides and behind bushes. Sometimes it takes a time to reach our ears. Determining exactly where it originates is sometimes a mystery.

Listening to the voice of God can be like that, I think. Sometimes I hear Him loud and clear and there is no question in my mind of his heart-piercing message. Other times, I’m not so sure, not so certain…

I was once in a wonderful class on prayer and the Psalms taught by a minister-friend of ours. Among the points I remember from that class is one insight he shared:

Sometimes awakening in the night isn’t just awakening in the night; it’s a time to meet with God.

What if we looked at all interruptions, all detours,

all misdirections like that?

If God is with us all the time, which–in Christ–He is, according to Matthew 28:20,

And behold, I am with you always, even to the end of the age,

and if He plans our way, orders our days, determines our steps, as He does according to Psalm 37:23,

The steps of a man are ordered by the LORD, when he delights in His way

as well as in Psalm 31:14 and 15:

You are my God; my times are in your hand

and in Psalm 23:4:

Even though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil, for You are with me; Your rod and Your staff, they comfort me,

Then He does seek communion with us at all times.

So, let’s see that red light during our commute as a call to stop whatever keeps us from peaceful trust in His sovereignty in our lives. Let’s just lay it down like the painted lane divider right on the asphalt. May we answer the baby’s midnight cry as a time to comfort that little one and be comforted over our deepest fears by our heavenly Father. Let’s watch the clear water in the sink pour over sudsy, dirty dishes or in the driveway over a sudsy, dirty car and may it remind us of God’s full washing away of our sins in Christ. Let’s thank Him and praise Him as that water runs clear.

Remember our Savior has a purpose for us, and He even has a purpose for the pauses of our day:

May our days and nights be communion with Christ.

 

3 Ways to Not Miss Out

This photo of our trusty dog and an open Bible shows the usual way my morning starts. A walk up and around our street together follows. But sometimes it’s raining  (like today) and we don’t go on a walk. Even more disruptive to my outlook and thinking is the reality that sometimes my morning doesn’t start that way at all. It’s like I jumpstart the day–diving right into the whitewater rush of activities. I let other details and pressing To-Do’s crowd out that most important time.

It seems we all have long lists of To-Do’s that clamor for our attention and time. Grocery shopping, doctors’ appointments, meals to prepare, opportunities to volunteer, car pool lines to wait in, bills to pay, dogs to wash, bathrooms to clean, unending piles of laundry… Whew! It’s exhausting to even think about sometimes, isn’t it–or at least it seems that way to me!

I’m a dedicated list maker and have succumbed some times to even putting the most mundane item–like “Get Mail”–on the list so I’ll be able to cross at least something out. That’s pretty pitiful, isn’t it?!

Many years ago, I read a little pamphlet entitled “Tyranny of the Urgent.” I don’t know who wrote it, but its wisdom has stayed with me. The pamphlet spoke about how we pay attention to the urgent things in life and sorrowfully neglect the important things in life. That’s a personal challenge to this list-maker. I’m usually reminded of that on my way up the driveway with the mail! I really miss uninterrupted time with God, reading His Word, and prayer.

In the mornings this month(or at least on most mornings), I’m reading through the Psalms in groups of 4 or 5 day in a book that brings them together with thoughts to ponder at the close of each group. (It’s Psalms by the Day by Alec Motyer and available at Christianbook.com.) Yesterday I had that time. The Psalms were wonderful and the thoughts were challenging, but what kept coming into my mind was our older neighbor next door, and I determined to go see her that morning.

And I did. And without our dog, so I could actually go in and visit a while.

I knocked on her door and she quickly answered. She was smiling and was dressed in cleaning clothes all spotted with paint.  She welcomed me inside and we sat in her living room. The vacuum sat still, tied up by its cord under the dining table behind us. She said she had just completed vacuuming and was expecting company the next day. As it turned out, a dear friend of hers from college days had unexpectedly died, and she had opened her home to several mutual friends to come and stay and all attend the funeral together. We remarked on the blessings of hospitality and friendship. Then she admitted that, as her friend had died suddenly, there were things she never had the opportunity to say to her. That was the true source of her sadness and the underlying reason for her hospitality. She wanted to tell those friends how much she treasured them and even how much more Jesus treasured them.

That is an important To-Do.

Suddenly, a beep went off in the hall. She laughed and confessed that the beeping had been going on all morning–and was at a loss to stop it. I determined it was a smoke detector in the hall whose battery was depleted. She produced a step stool and a new battery–and borrowing her reading glasses–I climbed up, replaced the battery, and the beeping stopped. She was so appreciative and remarked how I must have come for that very reason. Only God knows.

The funny thing is that I was given so much more than I gave. It caused me to ask myself what have I left unsaid, undone, or unheeded?

That brings me back to the faithful friend at the top of the page. We are in his last days now. Our long walks have become short but sweet ones. Playtime has become more infrequent. But he still loves to rest beside me as I read the Bible and pray and write at my desk (where he currently is, as in the photo below), at the kitchen table, or outside on the deck.

So that will be an important To-Do. Not a grand thing in the scale of things, but a comfort to him. And it will also spur me on to a consistent and beautiful time with God.

Likewise, and even more so, remembering to check on my neighbors will be an important To-Do: building community and looking for ways to serve, weeds to pull, and lives to impact for Christ.

So here is the list I’ve made: the “3 Ways to Not Miss Out” on the important things in life:

  1. “But seek first his kingdom and his righteousness, and all these things will be given to you as well.” Matthew 6:33
  2. “Love the Lord your God with all your heart and with all your soul and with all your mind.” Matthew 22:37
  3. “Love your neighbor as yourself.” Matthew 22:38

And that sums up everything.

 

 

The Weather, Reality, and Life

How’s your weather today? It’s bright and sunny here. Birds chirp. Bees buzz. Sounds like a warm day, right? It is now, but early this morning it called for long pants, long sleeves, and a light jacket!

Appearance isn’t always reality.

Aren’t we like that sometimes? We smile and laugh–all blue skies and golden sunshine. But our reality? It’s a downpour of fear, worry, and anger that only washes away our trust and peace.

Hmmm… Should that really be our reality as followers of Christ?

Let’s consider Paul’s reality as given in his 2nd Corinthians 11:23-28 “resume”:


PAUL

~ Servant of Christ Jesus ~

Experience:

  • Imprisoned repeatedly
  • Shipwrecked 3 times
  • Adrift in the sea 1 day/night
  • Flogged numerous times
  • Lashed 39 times on 5 occassions
  • Beaten with rods 3 times
  • Stoned 1 time
  • In danger from robbers, countrymen, and unfaithful friends

Characteristics:

  • Exhausted
  • In pain and without sleep
  • Hungry and thirsty
  • Cold and in rags
  • Given a “thorn in the flesh” to foster humility

Aim:

  • Concern for the church
  • Concern for the sake of Christ

As close as I come to Paul’s trials is being seasick once on a cruise ship. Lord, have mercy! My trials are nothing compared to Paul’s, so you’d think it would be easy for me to maintain his aim. Yet, am I continually concerned about the spiritual health of the church and my fellow Christians? Am I content in my circumstances and more concerned about others and the glory of Christ?

Paul wanted something, too. He wanted that thorn in the flesh, thought an eye problem, to be removed. He asked God for its removal three times and all three times God said no. In 2nd Corinthians 12, Paul records God’s words as,

My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness.

Paul submits to God, saying,

Therefore I will boast all the more gladly of my weaknesses, so that the power of Christ may rest upon me. For the sake of Christ, then, I am content with weaknesses, insults, hardships, persecutions, and calamities. For when I am weak, then I am strong.

Paul’s trust in Christ gave him a perspective that focused beyond his present circumstances. He realized when he had nothing, he had everything–he had Christ.

As we face our trials, may we also trust in Christ and be strong in Him. That will bring real peace, and–in the midst of storms–a bright, sunny day in our souls.